A Little Bit About Me
Asalaamu Alaykum,
I pray you are in the best of health.
I would describe myself as someone well-educated, belonging to the middle class (living in a rental apartment), a Sunni family, down to earth in nature, very honest, confident, active, very ambitious and with a good sense of humour.
I very much enjoy travelling (have seen northern areas of Pakistan) and learning new things. I take great importance in exercise (yoga & aerobics). Other interests include freelancing as a Graphic Designer, cooking, walking, dining out, sea-view, travelling, & socialising with family & friends. I feel like to be in my own skin when I get a chance to travel, or help needy people & most importantly when I offer Namaz.
Deen is very important to me, I pray 5 times, keep it all fast in Ramadan & strive to learn and act upon it. However, I am a moderate person who has mixed thinking + dressing & personality of eastern & western.
Focused on marriage commitment and in my view the best we might know someone is by talking to them and seeing their style in real situations. Someone who feels marriage should be once with understanding & problems can be solved with communication rather than running/quitting from the situation.
About myself, a good observer, reliable when it comes to responsibility, sometimes serious and sometimes funny. Came up from high moral and education standards. Always try to develop more maturity, honesty and discipline in my personality.
The last & important:
I stutter (psychological problem), and never stutter in self-conversation & reading, or recitation of the Quran. Mostly I speak with very fluency, nobody can guess if I stammer or not.
Rest you may ask in the future conversation. Thank You
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What I Am Looking For
It's difficult to analyze what we look for however I may think of someone who is here seriously for marriage purpose, is god-fearing, a bit traditional, has good character, haven't had sexual or haram relationships (Zinnah). Who is ready to take responsibility for marriage financially, emotionally, & socially. And the one can look after his wife and future family independently. To give and get respect is more important to me than love. Someone who has high moral values, good character, is well-educated, extrovert, mature, responsible, non-conservative, moderate, intelligent, has traditional values, knows his limits and roots, is active, keeping himself fit (bonus), honest, and most importantly an ever smiley humble heart and face.
- Have ONLY from Karachi, please! Even if someone is from abroad (roots should be in Karachi).
Please don't contact me if you don't differ b/w haram & halal activities (drinking alcohol, sheesha, having physical relationships, etc) & smokers. Also, swipe left if you are insecure, conservative, & the one who hides important details.
Someone who is fully familiar with her roots and culture besides being a modernized person. & yes most important…. Who is very serious about marriage & involves parents at an early stage & is mentally, emotionally, & financially prepared to start a new chapter of life “Marriage”.
I believe honesty and trust are the two factors that determine a successful relationship. An ideal partner would have a strong belief in our beautiful religion and Eastern culture, and possess a balance of religion and the world that we live in today. He would have the belief that a person should be accepted for his/her good & bad habits rather than try to change him/her for marriage purposes. I feel that forming a friendship is always important to gain an understanding of one another.
Nobody is perfect & nobody gets a fully compatible guy/girl. But these things matter to initiate conversation:
- Have ONLY from Karachi, please! Even if someone is abroad, roots should be in Karachi.
- Single/Unmarried + between 32 to 37 years of age + Sunni + can speak Urdu.
- Who can seriously accept the girl the way she is and not try to change her for marriage as nobody gets happiness if he/she is not in his/her skin.
- Who is looking for a Wife to raise a new family & kids & make his House "A Home" (not a working woman to support him financially)
- Non-smoker & doesn’t drink.
- Non-materialistic families (who prefer a good girl rather than a dowry).
A relationship needs time.. so if you have no time??? DON'T WASTE MY TIME!!! I am not interested in 2/4/6 months of conversations. I believe in Nikkah seriously.
Take Care & Thank you
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